One Saturday...
Got dragged to the golf course today



Let me guess
Steven had a meeting with a client who invited him to play
Bingo
The client decided to bring his wife along for the whole afternoon
So here I am
Assigned with the task of keeping her busy and entertained
What are you, a babysitter?
You're telling me
She's thankfully not half bad so far
Are you at least playing today?
I played a few short holes earlier to be polite
My swing's definitely improved a bit since last year
Nowhere near Steven's skill though
Of course not
That man takes golf way too seriously
Does he still practice every weekend?
He does
You'd think he's trying to be competitive or something haha
Anyway
I'm mostly just drinking iced tea in the clubhouse with the wife
Sounds much better than walking around in the heat today
That's a no-brainer
How are things going back at home lately?
Same old
Nothing's changed
Kyle still barely talks to me
Even when we're in the same room
It's like I don't exist
The only time he acknowledges me is when he needs something
And even that's only when his father isn't available to do it instead
It's frustrating
I hear you
And that sounds extremely exhausting
Teenagers are tough to handle
So maybe this is him going through a rebellious phase
He should grow out of it eventually
Maybe
I'm comforting myself by thinking this is better than him actively causing me trouble
That's one way to look at it
Well...
He'll eventually open up to you and appreciate your effort
Just give it some more time and keep showing up for him
I hope so
It's been 8 years already
I don't know how much longer it's going to take
Anyway, I have to go now
Steven's waving me over
A few weeks later...
yo man
how're things moving with jenna today
did you finally get anywhere
idk
slow progress
she's still making me work for every little step
damn
you guys've been hanging out for a solid minute
is she just playing hard to get
or is she actually ignoring you for real
playing hard to get i think
she won't give me a clear yes to anything i ask
just keeps finding random small reasons to hold back
classic shit
what kind of reasons is she giving you anyway
she should be running out of excuses by now right
mostly curfew stuff
stuff you can't argue about
she knows her stuff
but it's her attitude mostly
she acts like she's doing me a huge favor by even considering it
bro
girls with strict rules like her always pull this exact thing
they love having control
you just gotta keep pushing her
without looking desperate of course
won't do you any good to have another thing to hang over your head
plus desperation's a quick way to get cut off
yeah, i know
it's annoying though
and really frustrating
for sure
but trust me
her type usually caves eventually
they just need to feel like they're in total control of the final decision
if she's anything like the others
once she feels like she makes the rules
she'll drop the attitude and agree
you think so?
cuz she acts like she doesn't care
yup
that's just part of the show
don't let it mess with your head
if you don't mind me giving advice
i don't
it's welcomed tbh
then act super chill
let her think she has all the control
she'll eventually start wondering why you're not chasing as hard
not a bad plan
and i'm tired enough with it to probably come across as sincere
and i'm determined to finish this
i put way too much effort into her to just quit and walk away
exactly
you just gotta outsmart her logic
so stick to that plan
let me know when she finally drops the act
i will
later
A few days later...
Are you ready for our dinner?
I've got our table booked at the restaurant for 7 sharp

Almost ready to go
Just need to sit down and do my makeup properly
Babe
Needing to do your makeup is hardly "almost ready"
What's going on?
You usually have your face finished at least an hour before you leave the house
I got a little distracted in the kitchen
I was making Kyle his favorite baked ziti
Really, Laura?
That boy only ever talks to you when he wants something from you
You should've just told him to order pizza
You're going out
He asked me to cook it for him
I couldn't bring myself to say no
Why not?
He's 18
He can easily make his own dinner
Or at least get it delivered
I was more than happy to do it
He called me Mommy when he asked
Now that's just blatant teenage manipulation at work
You know that, right?
I do
And I don't really care
It felt really nice to hear him say it
It was like we were making some progress
He's letting his guard down around me
You're far too patient with that boy
Just don't let his demands make you late
Go finish your makeup
Text me once you're actually walking out
I'll see you at the restaurant
Friday...
jenna
talk to me
please
i hate leaving things unresolved
i thought i made my position very clear, Kyle
i need space to think
is that so hard to understand?
or can you not help but be unreasonable?
i know i am
i'm sorry for pushing
i just want you to know i respect you
i'm serious
it's difficult to believe you're serious when you keep ignoring my need for space
a proper relationship requires patience and boundaries
do you even understand what i expect from a boyfriend?
yeah
i do
i get it
i promise i'll meet your expectations
i promise i'll be exactly what you want
just give me a chance to show you
i'll follow your rules
your timing was terrible too
my classes are demanding and my parents expect me to maintain my high grades
i can't afford any distractions in my schedule
i'll work around your schedule, jenna
i won't be a distraction
i'll help you study if you want me to
i just want to be with you
please
just say yes
you're so persistent
it's exhausting dealing with you when you act like this
you act like your wants are the only things that matter
no of course not
that's not true at all
i'm just persistent because i care about you a lot
i don't want to give up on us
please, jenna
let me prove it to you
you say that now
but i'm aware that but boys are rarely true to their word
you all just want one thing in the end
i swear i'm different
i'll prove you wrong about that
hmm, i suppose i can give you a chance
if anything, you have shown dedication
okay
we can date
fuck yeah
thank you
you won't regret it
i swear i'll be good
already regretting it
language please
sorry
just happy
i expect you to respect my values and behave at all times, Kyle
i will not tolerate any inappropriate behavior
my standards are non-negotiable
you need to understand that my morals come first before any relationship
if you cross a line or disrespect my boundaries, we're permanently done
is that understood?
yes
of course
understood
good
now i have to study
i'll see you on Monday
Later that night...
she said yes
we're official
hell yeah bro
took you long enough
glad she proved me wrong and didn't string you along until graduation
you've been chasing her since junior year
felt longer tbh
she made me work for sure
basically had to beg her
so much for the plan then
but what's the deal
she dropped the attitude at least right
kinda
but not really
she agreed
but she’s still strict about her priorities and rules
figures
she always acts like she's superior to everyone else
doubt she'd stop for anyone
so what are these rules
mostly about her boundaries
she made a big deal about her values
said if i cross a line, she's done for good
ugh
that already sounds exhausting
how far do you think she will go with you
is she going to let you do anything physical at all
idk
i don’t think i'll be kissing her for a good while
she's very rigid about everything
so probably just holding hands for a while
brutal
you're in for a real test of patience
like getting a girlfriend is cool
but not if she treats you like a monk
you're 18
how long can you even last
no clue tbh
i just wanted her to agree to date me first
i'll figure out the rest later
i'm gonna be honest man
i don't see this going well
sitting on a couch just holding hands gets boring quick
yeah
i know
already feeling restless thinking about it
i want to do things with her
but i can't push her yet
just don't let her treat you like a dog on a short leash
you gotta push the physical boundaries again soon
and be at least somewhat successful
otherwise you're just gonna be miserable
i'll at least try waiting a few weeks before i try
can't afford to mess it up on day 1
she'll drop me fast
sure
just letting you know it's gonna be a rough summer if she stays rigid
but congrats anyway
thanks, man
relieved the chasing phase is done at least
we can celebrate tomorrow
sounds good